Simple Wishes

                      Aston ~ "Set Fire To the Rain" Adele Cover

 

Courtesy of YouTube 

Who knew a song played without the lyrics could send a message to your emotions. I do
 not know, but ever since I came into adulthood, I've learned to cherish silence. Sit in the cool afternoon, and enjoy the breeze. Away from my phone, away from homework.

  Ever get that feeling that your just zipping through the day as you are getting your priorities done, but at the end you feel lifeless? For me, I think about all I have to do, and I'm breathless, because all I do now will be leading up to a crucial moment, when that degree is finally in my hands.

The other day, I sat in the afternoon sun, classes were done, people were getting off work, and just as I finished perusing a event on campus, I find myself in silence. The sound of the wind was all I could hear, and I wondered, why haven't I stopped to smell the flowers, yet feel the breeze flow across my cheek?

I never took the moment from the daily grind to just stop. Life is more than just being grateful for surviving a crazy day, its deciding for yourself about what you plan to do next. Whether it be now, the next year, or the next ten years.

In my high school years, everyday I wished for my life to change, for my 'daily life' to be exploding with excitement, happiness, and confidence. Simply, I kept my intentions to myself, rather than trying to actually participate in what the world has to offer. Such as, I never liked to dance, therefore, even at prom, I didn't have the courage to shuffle my way to the dance floor even though I was alone.

But, fate tends to surprise, now I love to dance even on my own. If the music is good, I will make my way. The aha! moment did not appear til much later in my journey, but I am glad it did.

So, dear readers, wishing upon a star, on 11:11 or anytime, is not a silly thing. Forget the woulds, shoulds, coulds. A wish is a personal intention for something you truly want, and can picture a better life beyond what is happening right now. All money and relationships aside (and I have made a few in my lifetime), its not what you need to have, its about finding it for yourself.

Its like stating your wish, and setting it free, it will appear in one form or another, trust me.
But, be open-minded for fate or the universe likes to package wishes differently.

Just sayin' be careful what you wish for...  ;)


Take Good Care, 

CC 

 

What to do, but Celebrate!

               "Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.
           It turns what we have into enough, and more.
               It turns denial into acceptance,
            chaos into order, confusion to clarity.
               It can turn a meal into a feast,
            a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.
      Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today,
            and creates a vision for tomorrow."

                          ~Melody Beattie~


 I just recieved my letter that, I will officially be graduating this Fall 2012 from college! Whoa and wow! It is unbelievable that something that I have been looking forward to has now become real, and its here and now.
However, I had to believe in order to get here. I had to have FAITH...and accept all the challenges that came with it.

                               Is my excitement showing? ;)


I close my eyes, and I want to cry, haha. I look back, and I've contemplated and reflected so much on what I have done, especially the miserable moments. But, hey, I celebrate that!

Because, you never see how far you come til some surprising moment, and its that letter that changed my momentary misery into absolute joy.

However, it does not take a moment like this to celebrate, to rejoice, to feel that gratitude and hold it tight. One day, I was just shopping and a lady asked me for help finding some makeup for a big night, and after I did, she said thank you and left. But I felt so touched, so amazed, I didn't even need to buy anything, I was that joyful and I felt it, deep in my soul.

 
Why wait?

As we live our story, each and everyday, (yes, a story) in each of our unique lives, why not give thanks? Misery can feel like a bad song on repeat, change the track by choosing to be happy, choosing to not let this moment get the best of you.

My first four years is coming to an end, but I choose to see it differently.
I choose to accept all that I have to feel to get to where I want to be, and
if it includes being grateful and celebrating each day, so be it!



More gratitude to appear in the next few months :)



Thank you for reading, and have a Grate-full Day!

CC












Today for what its worth, should be celebrated, relish each ordinary moment.
 Its tough in times of change to remember.

Dear readers, to celebrate means to be thankful, grasping that golden nugget of gratitude.

 It is no better time than now to celebrate!

Beat it, and Let it Go

                        "You never know, until you do,"

"Numb"

By Usher 
Courtesy of YouTube

 In this song, he makes a good point. For once, I hear a song from Usher that does not involve bodies getting lost in euphoria, but about life. No matter what stage it is for each of us, its possible to move forward,  we just gotta LET IT GO.

I'm no self-help guru, but some days, the punches just roll on in. School day troubles like a long wait to park, while its pouring out, and your shoes, bag, and hair get soaked. But, still you walk yourself to class.

 Why?

If so much was ruining your day, why bother going to do something that might make matters worse? Its faith, hope, and trust, and not so much Pixie Dust. Cliche' I know, but its important, even almost instantaneous to hope the day gets better or shake the negativity off your shoulders. Some days it doesn't work that way.

 Today, I took the time to wander....or get out of my set routine (it was driving me crazy!) , and pop into a favorite place of mine. As I strode along, just browsing, I came across a simple little book, with the most comforting words ever:

 

 

BEAT not be defeated by....STRESS!

 

 

 

 

 

Not one, not even five, but 365 ways to Beat Stress........Creatively!! I was sold. This darling little book felt like hope. I was contemplating also that finding happiness in a book in these modern times, seems a bit slow, as days get busier and busier. It is however, in a actual book that I didn't feel like going nuts to try to find the answers to my bad days. To deal with them, I felt like I done it all.

What I needed was new ideas.

The book in my hand is from Barbour Publishing, and is written and compiled by Janice Hanna. A book just small enough to fit into my book-bag or purse. 

From inspirational quotes, to daily tips that cover a whole year, it gives me strength that I can do something about my stress, everyday. That's amazing, especially if you are working hard to get that degree, promotion, or to reach a new goal!

Inspiration and motivation can be just around the corner.

Make sure to keep your mind open to new books and music, because it could just be the thing you need to get through the rough n' tough days. Go to a bookstore, pick up a book that captures your attention, and give it a shot. Or scroll on YouTube and compile a music playlist that truly makes you happy!

Usher...says and I agree, if in front of you is a mountain, an obstacle or an idea, smile dear friend, and say "bring it on!" You move yourself forward, to Conquer the day that lies ahead with your own grace and suave-ness. 

Stress, is so yesterday. 

Sending vibes of Relaxation and Trust,

CC